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I've seen this on several people on my flist and like all of them, I am also amazed at how accurate it is with only two question... It's quite scary...

the Romantic
Test finished!
you chose BY - your Enneagram type is FOUR.


"I am unique"



Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.


How to Get Along with Me



  • Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
  • Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
  • Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
  • Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
  • Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!

What I Like About Being a Four



  • my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
  • my ability to establish warm connections with people
  • admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
  • my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
  • being unique and being seen as unique by others
  • having aesthetic sensibilities
  • being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me

What's Hard About Being a Four



  • experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
  • feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
  • feeling guilty when I disappoint people
  • feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
  • expecting too much from myself and life
  • fearing being abandoned
  • obsessing over resentments
  • longing for what I don't have

Fours as Children Often



  • have active imaginations: play creatively alone or organize playmates in original game s
  • are very sensitive
  • feel that they don't fit in
  • believe they are missing something that other people have
  • attach themselves to idealized teachers, heroes, artists, etc.
  • become antiauthoritarian or rebellious when criticized or not understood
  • feel lonely or abandoned (perhaps as a result of a death or their parents' divorce)

Fours as Parents



  • help their children become who they really are
  • support their children's creativity and originality
  • are good at helping their children get in touch with their feelings
  • are sometimes overly critical or overly protective
  • are usually very good with children if not too self-absorbed

Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
HarperSanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages



You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose BY

Would you rather have chosen:

  • AY (EIGHT)
  • CY (SIX)
  • BX (NINE)
  • BZ (FIVE)




  • My test tracked 2 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:


    free online dating free online dating
    You scored higher than 21% on ABC

    free online dating free online dating
    You scored higher than 57% on XYZ
    Link: The Quick and Painless ENNEAGRAM Test written by felk on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test


    It has so got me pegged... I am exactly as it says I am, from "as a child" to what I like and dislike... And the type of parent it says I'll be has always been the type of parent I've thought I wanted to be.... Absolutely scary...

    I wonder if this implies how simple I am if I can be understood through two measly questions...?

    I am still loving Miyano's song. I was thinking about offering it for download on the Eyeshield comm but someone beat me to it... There's always Suzuna's song field though but I'm still not sure... I'm not the type to offer things if I haven't been directly asked to.... :\ It all goes back to -- would anyone care? If no one cares, I'll feel bad for presuming that they would. But if they do care, I'll still feel bad about doing something so shameless for attention. And what if they use up so much bandwidth that NYU gets mad at me and pulls my 150 MB space (that I'm not supposed to have anyway). So I think I'll end up doing nothing.... Nothing gained but nothing lost. I think I like that.

    edit x1: Apparently, I am shameless... :\ I just couldn't help it...
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